Monday, August 25, 2014

All I Want is an Auntie Anne's Pretzel with Cheese




It's true. All I want is a pretzel. Just an original pretzel (although I do love the bite-sized ones)  with an over-priced, 3 Tablespoon amount of cheese-whiz sauce. Why? I don't know. Maybe because it means it would have to come from a fast food chain. Maybe because it means I would have to hit up a mall to get one. Maybe it's because it's what my mom and I always buy when we go through a shopping quest together. Whatever the reason, I just want a stinkin' pretzel and I know I can't have one.


I think today is one of my emotionally, hormonally-driven days. I just miss home. Tony says I need an outlet to let my frustrations trickle out before it drives me insane and I just randomly leave the island one day. He has a valid point; I may or may not have debated it once or three times since moving down here.

We have a very good nice place in a safe neighborhood, with very little insect problems. I am grateful for that. Do I still miss home? Terribly so. I miss being able to text whomever I want whenever I want. I miss not fearing mosquitos- I killed 4 today- one of which was striped meaning it carried the dengue fever virus. I miss fast food. So much. And most of all I miss the thriftiness Walmart offers and how it carries everything you could ever dream of at normal prices. haha. Look at me, regarding Walmart as my dream shopping area. It wouldn't be so bad if we were only here for a few months. It's two years. It's like going on a mission where your purpose isn't really justified nor motivated. Well, that's for me at least. Tony has all the motivation, drive, and reason to be here. I've never seen him more dedicated to a purpose. But for me, I feel like it's just a little more than what I really want.

I haven't learned to love this island yet. So many of the SO's (significant others) talk about how they love it here.  And they've only been here 2 weeks! We've been here 6 weeks, and I haven't said I love it yet. The beaches are beautiful. The economy is tolerable. The stores are fine. The company is not my family nor friends. I'm trying though. My body is become more acclimated- I'm not overly hot all the time- just sometimes. I successfully made breakfast, lunch, and dinner for Tony every weekday last week, so that was a huge accomplishment for me.

I think I'm just having a hard time accepting the longevity of this lifestyle. I'm not used to living  like this for long periods of time. I've done two weeks visiting family friends in Costa Rica and Germany, 3 months in China, but never dedicating myself to a life where Pizza Huts and McDonalds do not exist.

It'll get better. I know it will. I've never been a person who dwells in the present. I've always been stuck in the what-ifs future and the memorable past. I need to learn how to just live in the here and now or else it will pass me by.

Tuesday, August 19, 2014

Random Parts



I was going over the pictures that are on our camera, and I found some pictures that were never really placed with a blog post. I figured I'd add them just for kicks and giggles.

Bear's yoga pose. He held this for seriously a minute before Tony came and joined him. Tony then patted him on the back and Bear started puking.... poor thing. He was okay after that.

My most comfortable position watching netflix haha. 

Here is a progression of Tony's burn line. You can see the pinker part on the bottom- we had gone to the beach while he had the first burn, his swimsuit was hurting so he lower his trunks 2 inches lower, thus resulting in a burn on top of a burn.

Peeling.

A lot of the burn came off in layers like this.



This is what happens when Bear finds a "friend." Don't worry- it was only a small beetle.

At night you can hear screaming outside that sounds like a dying cat. It's actually screeching owls that like to hang out on the power lines about 100 ft from our house. 
Here is a recording of it.Sorry it's kind of quiet.






Saturday, August 16, 2014

Baby Update: Week 32.5 (8 months)

We met with Dr. Lendore again today. We arrived at 7 am, got in the office at 8 and being first in line, we were able to enter his air conditioned office at 9. He didn't come in till 9:15, but that's okay. We had our last necessary ultrasound today. It'll be the last time we see her until she's actually here. Crazy to think about, but so so SO exciting.

Upon being checked in, we found I have actually lost a pound over the past four weeks. I'm at 136 lbs- overall I've gained 20 lbs. I was freaking myself out because four weeks ago I was at 137 and the websites say I'm supposed to be gaining a pound per week. I asked about this and Dr. Lendore wasn't worried about it. He said she's still growing just fine, I've just kind of plateaued for a little bit.

The ultrasound part was amazing. The machine was a little more rudimentary than the ultrasound machine we experienced in the US, the picture not quite as clear, but we still saw everything we wanted to. He went through and made sure Tony could see the various parts and explained how the gestational size was measured. Our baby is a little small; everything measures at barely 31 weeks- the head and arms all proportional. However, her legs are well into the 32 week range. She'll be taller- exactly what I hoped for :) Her legs were muscular too and she was kicking the whole time, making it hard to get measurements. She has at least 5 fingers and 5 toes- those were hard to count haha.We saw the perfect four chambers of the heart and her little face. She has chubby cheeks haha. I never thought I would be so excited to see a baby. I have never really found babies "cute," especially newborns, but I'm very excited to see ours. She'll be cute to us.

I never thought I would do this, but we totally did a baby-bump photo shoot. On one of Tony's personality tests that he had to take at BYU for a class, photographer was one of the jobs along with chef haha. We put his photography skills to the test. I edited using an online site called ipiccy.com. I actually really liked it. It was a lot like lightroom and more in-depth than piknik had been. I'm sure I over edited, but that's okay. photographer never showed up on my personality tests haha.





Tuesday, August 12, 2014

1 month down, 20 to go

Can you believe we've been here a FULL month already? I know I can't. Part of the problem is that I frequently still feel new, lost, and/or unsure as to location or availability of things on the island. I suppose it has gotten better. I have learned a few things though.
1. Nearly everything is available on the island. The question is how much you're willing to spend to get it.
2. Driving is always a gamble. You never know if it'll be an easy drive or if your car will break down yet again. I would like to believe that I am a little bit of a better driver than Tony, but I think that's because I remember directions a little easier than the ex-delivery driver who always used GPS.
3. You can escape the heat! How would you like to do it? Easiest is taking a quick cold shower and dry off using the fan. Or you can go to the clubhouse pool (so clean!) or any of the nearby beaches. The beaches are nice, I just don't always like getting sand everywhere or giving Bear a bath every single time. I think Bear is beginning to enjoy the water and realizes its purpose: to get cool. He'll walk in the water all the way to chest level and even wants to be carried out further sometimes.
4. Bugs are sneaky little devils. In our first week we had found two full-sized cockroaches and one of those poisonous centipedes in our bathroom. We cleaned and cleaned our house- we know it wasn't our fault for those initial ones. Then, for about the last two weeks we've been bug-free except for the random tiny, baby roaches that show up in the tub. I can kill those. I cannot tell you how much safer I felt being at home. However, Saturday I went into the bathroom to remove my contacts, opened the bathroom cupboard, and a HUGE cockroach fell right in front of my face, landed in the sink and began running and running around the sink. Needless to say I would not re-enter the bathroom for the next two days without having Tony check every nook and cranny. I would say this has been the most trying part of being here. I knew I could just live in a shower to escape the heat, but I always figured that I could just keep a really clean house to keep the bugs out. No matter how much I've kept things clean bugs come in randomly and it totally shatters my safehaven of a home. It makes me feel dirty and unsafe. I will never ever live in another area that has a common problem with roaches. Even parts of New York I may have to say no to.


Today we took a campus-directed tour of two local tourist attractions: the Mt. Qua-Qua hike to oversee the Grand Etang National, and to see the Annandale Waterfall. It was a lot of fun. We lucked out in being allowed to come because there had been a sign up for it that we didn't actually sign up on. We showed up at the correct time with the hope that 75 seats had not been filled. They hadn't and the tour guides were very nice about allowing us to join.

The roads were narrow and curvy to get up there, but I think I remember the way so that I can take up any visitors/friends we have that want to go up there.
*Note to self: Go up toward SAM''s, go straight through the roundabout. Follow till you get to the 24 hour gas station, turn right. At the striped-pole round-about turn left. Follow all the way up. There will be a Y division- one to go up goes to Etang, down goes to the falls. 




Tony liked this tree. It is super smooth and looks like it has been painted on with water colors! Naturally of course!




Known as "1910" this is the highest point on the island where you can drive.




The Grande Etang (grand ee-tang) National Forest is a rehab program meant to regrow the dwindling tree count of several indigenous trees in the area. Supposedly the nutmeg tree, the most famous of the Grenadian spice trees, has been over picked and therefore are dying out. There are also Mona Monkeys that live right on the ledge of the forest that come right up to visitors if you hold up a banana or fresh fruit. No one from our group had any fruit, so no monkeys visited.
Just outside of the forest there is a mountain called Mt. Qua-Qua (kwa-kwa). It is a hilly, steep, but fun mountain that I wouldn't mind doing again. Yes, I even did it being 8 months pregnant, so it wasn't that bad of a hike. The hardest part was the mud. It made you slip and slide all over the thing. It was the kind of mud that could literally suck your shoes off, so make sure you pack shoes you don't mind ruining, okay parents? I did surprisingly well despite my larger frame- I think the extra weight/size helped center my gravity. Tony didn't fall either but plenty of the others in the group did fall. It was hilarious.










The butt slider.
Brown shorts guy- took off his flip flops after a while and did the hike barefooted. I didn't blame him.

Notice the hand print on the shoulder. Haha.

Supposedly at the end of the hike (we only went about halfway), there is a rock where people write their names and it has a really cool view of the island. I want to visit this graffiti rock just to see all of the marks. There had been a guard's shelter on the Great Wall of China where everyone wrote our names- I thought it was neat there too. Maybe I just like the idea of vandalizing things. Ha.
Along this mountain there is a lake where you are not allowed to fish or swim. The urban legend is that the lake is bottomless and if you swim there, you may end up in different parts of the world like Mexico, Australia or the Great Lakes. Kind of like a Bermuda Triangle, but Grenadian style.



The waterfall was pretty cool, maybe another 5 minute drive after visiting the forest. It's definitely a touristy place though- as soon as you begin walking there's a guy with a monkey that will let you take a selfie with it for the price of 5 ec ($2). The monkey was pretty cute though- he'll climb on your should and lean against your head for a short time. Then there are two-three spice vendors selling little spice variety packs exactly like what you can find in the spice market for prices marked way high. Along the path there was a guy playing a guitar and singing about the tourists as they walk by. Tony got compared to Kevin Spacey and Tom Cruise haha. And finally there are "professional jumpers" who will walk up to the top of the falls and jump into the water from the dangerous heights, then ask for donations. It was cool and dangerous for them, I guess I don't believe that provides much of a living, nor does should it constitute for a job. But what do I know?
The falls had surprisingly shallow floors. It did make the professional jumper seem more dare-devilish, but again, that's their own fault. There is a little ledge where normal people can jump from. You can swim a little bit, but most places you can stand. Since today was a holiday (Carnival) there were LOTS of people there. I guess it's not usually as packed as what we saw.




Sorry this is sideways. I wanted to get the whole waterfall.

Isn't he good looking? <3

Overall it was a fun trip. I'd recommend it for anyone new.

Monday, August 11, 2014

Which way to turn? Take a guess. We're going to La Sagesse.

August 9,2014
    Today I got up early and went to the school to pick up my ID and finish registering. I had to go early because a bunch of people from the branch had invited us to go to another beach called La Sagesse and they were heading up at 10am. Well, I didn't finish at the school till 11am-ish so we headed up at 11:30-12:00. The map says it is 9 miles away, but it takes about 24 minutes to get there and the path is very unclear. We knew we had to take a left, then a sharp right, then another right. Where we had to do each of these was uncertain though. HAH. Cherish being the great driver that she is got us there with no problems. I would have gotten us lost for sure! When we got there I was less than impressed. For being as far away as it was I was expecting more.


The main reason everyone comes here is because they have boogie-boards and kayaks for rent and the waves make it fun for such things.

 

As I mentioned before, I already saw real waves on the island and this beach did not have any. The crests were maybe 5' high at most and barely reached the shore. It was still fun though and a good place to learn how to boogie-board. Even Bear tried it!




We also met some young kids at the beach who were American-Grenadians. They were born on the island, but their parents are Americans who have been living in Grenada for a number of years. The reason I bring them up is because they had 2 dogs with them that gave Bear his first encounter with fleas! They were covered in them and before we knew that Bear had already sniffed and layed all over them. We haven't seen anything on him yet and we bathed him after this encounter, but I will keep you all posted. After some boarding, some swimming and some walking on the beach we headed home and bid adieu to La Sagesse.